Living Sexual Fantasies -- 10 Things Every Guy Needs to Try

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Living Sexual Fantasies -- 10 Things Every Guy Needs to Try Photo by John Dugan

What man doesn’t want a little bit of sexual adventure in his life? Whether he is hoping to spice up a long-term relationship with a little exotic fun, or has yet to settle down and is still sowing his wild oats, there are certain fantasies many men have in their spank bank. Here are the top 10 sexual fantasies every man needs to experience - or role-play - to complete the ultimate bucket list. Guys may also learn a thing or two about how best to maintain penis health while checking off these risqué exploits.

1) Have a threesome - It seems like every guy’s ultimate fantasy is to have a ménage-à-trois. What dude doesn’t want two chicks going bananas over him? While this may be the ultimate night out for a single guy, it can get much more complicated for those in a committed relationship. Think very hard before going down that road with a girlfriend or wife, as the much-coveted threesome has ruined many a relationship! Men should only enter into an encounter like this after some serious discussion - and full agreement. To have the same excitement sans sex, try visiting a strip club and getting a steamy lap dance in a private room as a couple - this stimulates the fantasy without taking it too far.

2) Have a one night stand - The idea of meeting a woman, hooking up with her and parting ways never to see each other again really gets a man going. This no-strings-attached type of encounter falls strictly on the single guy’s bucket list, but be sure to use a condom and exchange a sexual history before doing the deed. Though a guy may remember a one-night stand forever, he doesn’t need a memento of it in the form of a life-long sexually transmitted infection.

3) Make a sex tape - Sure, the lighting may not be Hollywood-worthy, and one is sure to see some unflattering angles, but making a video while doing the deed is a fun sexual fantasy that any couple can do - so long as both parties are willing.

4) Join the mile-high club - What guy - or girl - hasn’t thought about hooking up in those tiny airplane bathrooms. The excitement of possibly getting caught ramps both people up for a fast and furious quickie.

5) Sex in the water - Maybe it’s because the movies always make it look sexy, but who hasn’t fantasized about taking a sexy swim? Just make sure to have an exit strategy if using a public body of water sans swimsuit,

6) Have sex in a public place - Whether the beach, woods, or a parked car piques a guy’s fancy, having sex in a public place increases the risk factor and makes it exciting. Plan carefully before doing the deed, though - sex on the beach sounds sexy, but sand doesn’t feel so good on one’s private areas!

7) Have anal - Even if it turns out not to be a preferred sexual position, every man needs to experience anal sex at least once in his life - it’s like a sexual rite of passage.

8) Hook up with a cougar - Or a gold digger; the idea of sleeping with women much older or much younger than himself makes a man feel sexually invincible, as if he could please any woman. Married? Ask the wife to do a little role playing - hello, sexy schoolgirl outfit.

9) Engage in bondage - The best selling 50 Shades series has suddenly made S & M and bondage an exciting, acceptable practice. So take a page from the book (literally) and act out a little bondage fantasy play - just don’t forget to establish a "safe" word.

8) Sleep with a foreign chick - There’s just something about a girl with an accent that drives men crazy. Take it to the next level and take her home - the less English she speaks, the better! Married guys can get in on the action too - a cute outfit and a fake accent can go a long way in the bedroom.

Keeping the penis adventure-ready

Whether getting ready for a home-made film or prepping for an adult pool party, a man has to keep his member healthy and ready for sex at all times. In order to achieve this, he needs to take excellent care of it by always using a condom - nothing spoils a good sexual exploit like a pregnancy or STI scare. Also, using a daily penis vitamin crème (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) can help improve circulation to the area, which may provide greater levels of nutrient- and oxygen-rich blood, so he is ready for whatever comes his way!

Author's Profile

Visit for more information about treating common penis health problems, including soreness, redness and loss of penis sensation. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous online web sites.

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