Five Sex Questions for Men Exploring the Male Mind

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Five Sex Questions for Men Exploring the Male Mind Photo by John Dugan

Though most men love to say they never know what women are thinking, all women would agree the reverse is true, as well. Call it a defense mechanism, a difference in socialization, or just a battle of the sexes, but the fact of the matter is, men and women communicate differently. To get a woman talking, perhaps, a man need only ask the right question, but to get a man talking, a woman may need to offer the right incentive…or some liquid courage! Regardless, when it comes to sex, men and women both tend to be more open and honest with their friends than they are with their partners, which can be frustrating for both of them. For those women left scratching their heads, wondering what is he really thinking about sex, here is a little insight into the minds of men - direct from the mouths of men. Learn his little secrets and how to help him keep his penis healthy and ready for action.

1) Do men even like foreplay?

Men may have the reputation for wanting a "Wham, bam, thank ya Ma’am" type of sexual encounter, but not all of them are so quick to the draw. Women, whose bodies are more likely to need some warm-up before heading right to the main event, may be very surprised to learn that many men want the same pre-game. If sex is the main course, foreplay is a very tasty appetizer. There is no reason to rush right through; foreplay is just an extension of sex that makes the whole thing last longer - so why skip it when one can take his time and enjoy all of it? Okay - maybe once in a while, they do want to skip it, but not as often as a woman might believe!

2) Does he hate my love handles?

Sure, a guy who has been with his wife or girlfriend for a long time is likely to notice a few extra pounds - but she can likely see his beer gut sneaking up, too, right? That being said, men love their woman, and all her curves too! There is little sexier than a confident woman, so stop trying to hide those beautiful body parts with the sheet; he loves them all the same.

3) What does he really want from me in bed?

Each man has his own specific likes and dislikes, so there is no one universal answer. But, above all else, a man wants participation! He doesn’t want to feel like all the work is on him (talk about pressure) or worse, that she’s not enjoying it. So women should buck up, take the initiative once in a while, and make some encouraging sounds, too. No, not every guy wants his lady to moan like a porn star - but he likes to know if he’s doing something right!

4) What do men think about during sex?

Unlike women, who are too often thinking of their to-do list during sex, men are mainly just thinking how great it feels. They may also be wondering if she is enjoying it as much as he is, looking for signs that she is, and planning the next big move. Oh, and men also think about things like birth control and sexual health, too - so don’t be afraid to talk about those important topics.

5) Is he going to tell all his friends about this?

Some guys like to kiss and tell; others don’t. However, if a guy has a particularly good encounter, he may be tempted to brag to his friends. Women who don’t want to be the talk of the town should tell their guy to keep his trap shut, as he might not think sharing juicy details is a big deal.

Keeping a Man’s Penis Healthy

Now that the women of the world have a little more insight into the mind of their man, they should also know how to help him care for his penis. After all, a healthy penis is beneficial for both of their sex lives. To keep the penis running smoothly, a man should use a penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) packed with vitamins and minerals specially selected for optimal penis health. Simply apply after his daily shower and enjoy the benefits of a smoother, more sensitive shaft.

Author's Profile

Visit for more information about treating common penis health problems, including soreness, redness and loss of penis sensation. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous online web sites.

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