Virtual Sex - How the Tech-Savvy Get Frisky

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Virtual Sex - How the Tech-Savvy Get Frisky Photo by John Dugan

These days, sexual content is easier to come by than ever - a man doesn’t even have to go to the store anymore to see porn. Likewise, he doesn’t have to go to a bar anymore if he wants to meet a lady friend. Virtual sex -- or cyber sex -- continues to grow in popularity, as it provides yet another way to virtually meet and hook-up with a partner. Learn more about this hot trend, and why a guy doesn’t have to be a super geek to figure it out. Also, check out some pointers for keeping the penis healthy and ready for the money shot when the pants come off.

How to do it

There are many ways a guy can virtually get down with his bad self. Because of the accessibility of computers equipped with webcams and microphones, perhaps the most popular way is "face-to-face" via the Internet. Though plenty of men still enjoy phone sex, sexting, sexy emails, or even chatting online with words - no cameras -- it all depends on how adventurous he is feeling.

Virtual sex of any kind is something that singles and couple alike can engage in. They may participate regularly, or just on nights when they want to spice things up a bit. Some men use the same partner - either a real-life partner who is long-distance at the moment - or a sex partner they have met online; whereas, others prefer to find a new fling each time they log on.

Best of all, a guy doesn’t have to have a degree from MIT in order to successfully get with a girl online. Guys can meet willing partners in chat rooms, on message boards, or other online dating sites. All he needs is a computer with an Internet connection - and the ability to type one-handed if he is not using a camera or microphone!

Is it safe?

From a sexual health standpoint, yes! In fact, it is probably the safest kind of sex out there - because cyber sex is basically just simultaneous masturbation! As long as individuals engaging in these cyber relationship protect their identity, do not agree to in-person sexual meet-ups with strangers, or give out other personal information (i.e. address or credit card numbers) this is a perfectly safe way for a guy to get his jollies. In fact, some people remain completely anonymous by using a fake name or even wearing an intriguing mask over their face. However, users beware; one never knows exactly who they are interacting with - especially if there is no camera to verify looks. So a guy may think he is getting it on with a 20-something hot chick, but it could actually be a dude in his late 50’s with a beer belly. There is something to be said for investing in a web cam!

Is it cheating?

That probably depends on who one asks. Some people say that even if one is in a relationship, cyber sex is not cheating - as no fluids are actually exchanged. These individuals may think of it more like interactive porn. Others feel that yes, it is cheating, as one is likely seeing another’s private bits and at the least engaging in explicit behavior outside the relationship. Men who are in a couple need to feel out their mate before starting - or continuing - to engage in cyber sex of any kind, lest the relationship come to a quick, and ugly ending.

Keeping the manhood up to the task

Whether a man is priming for a night of virtual sex, or is lucky enough to have the real thing lined up, he will want to make sure his package is in tip-top condition. To make the pecker pretty one should do a bit of grooming - that doesn’t mean he has to go totally hairless - but at the least a trim around the edges is much appreciated by anyone getting down and dirty on his business. Next, he needs to take a pre-sex shower to freshen up and wash away a days worth of sweat and grime. Finally, follow it up with a refreshing dose of penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) full of vitamin E and Shea butter to help the penis skin stay silky smooth and ready for its close-up.

Author's Profile

Visit for more information about treating common penis health problems, including soreness, redness and loss of penis sensation. John Dugan is a professional writer who specializes in men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer to numerous online web sites.

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